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kids at weddings
kids at weddings
If I had a cent for every time I got asked for my two cents on kids at weddings I would be slightly less poor. But in all seriousness, this is SUCH a personal decision. Four years ago, when I was in the height of wedding planning the answer was an easy no. Fast forward to the now and the tables have turned.
It’s not an easy decision, or one that should be made for any other reason except the preference of the people getting married (but hey, that’s my stance of 99% of wedding related things).
But, what I have done is broken down some of the considerations, tips and tricks to help you make an informed decision and also a little bit of a guide of things you can do to make it easier on yourselves.
Before we jump in, I want to preface this with; just because you welcome kids to a ceremony doesn’t mean you have to include them for the reception and vice versa. Your day, your way.
It’s a NO from me – or five reasons why kids at your wedding might not be your jam.
1. The idea of kids screaming or running around during your vows makes your skin crawl
2. If you invited everyone’s kids to your wedding, you’d be way over budget
3. Your wedding isn’t a child-friendly affair – champagne, candles, drunk guests and a banging d-floor might not make the perfect mix for little ones hanging around
4. You’d like your friends and family to have a night off and give them the opportunity to let their hair down
5. You simply don’t want children there. There’s no single reason, you just don’t want it.
… on the flip side …
I can’t imagine getting married without the little loves – or five reasons why kids at weddings rule
1. There’s nothing cuter than watching the little ones in your life break it down on the d-floor.
2. Photos. See above.
3. Those unscripted moments. The innocent comments, the ooooh’s and aaaah’s. These inbetweeners than add to the magic of the moment.
4. You just simply can’t imagine celebrating such a milestone without some of your favourite little people.
5. Have you ever seen the excitement on a child’s face during a first dance? For them, it’s a real life fairytale and all their dreams come true.
6. You don’t need a reason. If you’d like the little ones there, invite them along. Then, it’s up to the individual parents to decide if they want to bring them.
Next week on the blog;
Ok, so we’ve decided to include kids on our guest list – what can we do to keep them entertained AND make sure we/their parents have a kick-ass time.